tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25308225.post4926323566409044730..comments2024-01-18T19:35:13.610-08:00Comments on Collideoscope: U.S. Culture Keeps Young Men ImmatureUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25308225.post-74765279274327338222010-03-05T09:10:24.071-08:002010-03-05T09:10:24.071-08:00It's considered "immaturity" because...It's considered "immaturity" because for a long time in western culture young males strove for independence. Being "on your own" was a sign of manhood, and a source of pride.<br /><br />While I agree with the article's premise, it fails to take into account the high cost of setting up a separate home in these times...something that keeps some young men at home who would rather leave.<br /><br />However, John makes a point that I must disagree with...and it concerns the reason for delaying/abstaining from marriage. One simply cannot ignore the fact that young people find fulfillment of their sexual needs long before marriage...the lack of which was a factor in marriages happening at younger ages. Marriage is often viewed now as little more than simply finding the "right" partner after having had many such partners.<br /><br />As well, the materialistic worldview of our culture creates an expectation of the trappings of prosperity...something that usually cannot be fulfilled by young people before they have completed their educations and spent some years in the workforce.<br /><br />Sadly, trends like delaying marriage (if marriage comes at all), less stability in marriage, high economic pressure, and fewer children from those marriages do not bode well for the future of our civilization.<br /><br />Long term, we're in trouble.<br /><br />http://cdnclipper.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25308225.post-21060575112681307022010-03-04T17:42:26.652-08:002010-03-04T17:42:26.652-08:00The article is a good one but the oping statistics...The article is a good one but the oping statistics raises a red flag for what is omitted (% women 18-24 living at home, the % of women reaching 40 and not marrying, confidence intervals and other data ). I suspect reading the un cited recent study may put a different spin on the data. <br /><br />Why is living with your parents a sine of immaturity? One is able to save money on rent and utilities and the rent that is payed goes to that persons parents who probably could use the money.<br /><br />Delaying / abstaining from marriage is first a response to seeing all the failed marriages (ones that end in divorces or leave the members envying the flatted squirrels on the road side). Additionally the young man needs to find a lady that wishes to marry him, this may not be doable. aka There are not that many fish in the sea and the ones in it are not that interested.<br /><br />It would seem that there is a new stage of life forming but to say it is immature is rather unfair.<br /><br />Lastly it would seem that men of all ages are less involved in church (note the lack of them in any given service (I think the Unguide to Dating cited 2:1 women to men in church)) and the pew warmers are a healthy population in all demographic groups.Johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01401970289278394055noreply@blogger.com